Sunday 4 November 2007

The Wedding Planners are here

Hello Everyone,

How are you guys doing? We are fine preparing for a busy next month, we would like to thank you for all your comments and emails (and in some cases pictures). Nneka - we are still laughing out loud from your comment about the snake skin wedding gown. That will be crazy but if there is one out there we will like to see :)
Most of the emails we receive are about wedding planners, who we are, how much we charge etc. This post will attempt to cover all those questions, if we don't please keep asking.

Take Care
Gbemi and Molara


Who is a Wedding Planner?


A Wedding Planner is known as a wedding consultant, event planner, event or wedding co-ordinator etc If you've ever been a bride, a groom, or even a bridesmaid, you also know the kind of stress involved with planning a wedding. A wedding planner must be able to remain calm in the face of adversity. He/She must be personable,and be a good negotiator. He/She is the mouthpiece for the bride and groom when it comes to hiring vendors and negotiating etc.


The Wedding Planner will be able to get you the best service for the lowest price (your budget). She must also be very well organized. A wedding planner will have a good fashion sense. He or she will know about colour, music, and flowers etc. A good knowledge of religions is also imperative, since a wedding ceremony is often a religious one. Related to this, is a knowledge of customs and traditions, which are also part of many wedding ceremonies.
How to hire a Wedding planner?
1. Must good planners nowadays have a website for information
2. A planner should be able to show you some of her work
3. A planner should be able to provide you with verifiable references
4. When you speak to a planner once you don't connect, keep walking! You must be able to trust
and be comfortable with you planner.

Meet the planners
As of now we have 3 planners below, we are expecting some more planners and their profiles soon.

Molara Akinosho of Just Weddings

Name of company:

Just Weddings (JW Events)

Website/Email Address:

http://jwevents.net/ (Official site)
Temporary site - Just Weddings

Countries you service:

Africa and beyond

Briefly tell us about your company:

JW Events is a Lagos based Event Design and Co-ordination company with a focus on chic weddings and special events. We are young, creative and passionate about style and creating beautiful, memorable events for our clients. We are that *wow* factor company!

What is your main speciality:

We believe each bride is different and so is each wedding. I would say event designing and planning for each bride.

5 Words to describe you:

Down to earth, creative, friendly, adventurous, fun loving

1 Advantage of your job:

You get to meet a lot of people, people you only read about or see on TV, next thing you are entering their house, room, having a close relationship with them

1 Disadvantage of your job:

There is no social life what so ever. It’s terrible!

Advise to brides to be about wedding planning / hiring a planner:

I would say employ an event planner, it is better for you, the ability to transfer all your stress and ideas of your wedding to someone else believe me it’s worth every penny of it. So you can focus on what is most important your marriage.

1 misconception about the wedding industry:

That we want to take all we can from every bride

1 misconception about you:

I don’t really know what people say I keep my focus on what God is saying or thinks

If you can change anything about the wedding planning industry what would it be:
I would want us to be more creative, and have more funds in the field so we can achieve more

Your favourite vendor to work with:

The MC I think we are the one that determine the mood of the party

Price range for day of events co-ordination and full wedding Planning:

It depends on how small or big your event is from 150 to a percentage of total budget

3 other planners you will recommend to other people and why:

Gbemi Adenekan (Omega Events) cause we think alike

Jibola Ponnle (Stencil Events) cause she is creative

Ibidun Ighodalo (Elizabeth R) cause I like her approach

Funke Obruthe (Zapphaire Events) cause I like her energy



Funke Obruthe of Zappahire Events

Name of company:

Zapphaire Events

Website/Email Address:

http://www.zapphaire.com/

Countries you service:

All countries

Briefly tell us about your company:
Zapphaire Events is an events planning, consulting and coordination Company. We plan all kinds of events from weddings, corporate events, social parties etc.we also provide ushers etc, advice you.

What is your main speciality:

All areas but more of weddings.

5 Words to describe you:
I am a go getter, energetic

1 Advantage of your job:

Getting to help people

1 Disadvantage of your job:

Not having a social life!

Advice to brides to be about wedding planning / hiring a planner:

Hire one you can trust and that you are really comfortable with

1 misconception about the wedding industry:

1 misconception about you:

That zapphaire events is really expensive to hire

If you can change anything about the wedding planning industry what would it be:
People getting into it should know what they are doing

Your favourite vendor to work with:

Price range for day of events co-ordination and full wedding Planning:
From 150k to 1million

3 other planners you will recommend to other people and why:



Gbemisola Adenekan of Omega Events

Name of company:

Omega Events

Website/email address:

http://www.myomegaevents.com/

Countries you service:

Nigeria and England (would go else were on request)

Briefly tell us about your company:

We are a full service Event designing, consulting, and planning and Coordinating Company managing the most important events (yours). At Omega Events creating personalized affairs is what we do best; we believe each occasion large or small deserves the same personal attention to detail.

What is your main speciality?

Every and anything related to wedding (focusing on budget monitoring)

5 Words to describe you:

Detailed, creative, calm, fun and very hands on.

1 Advantage of your job:

Meeting lots of different people and making new friends/acquaintances.

1 Disadvantage of your job:

It can be a bit physical

Advise to brides to be about wedding planning / hiring a planner:

If you do decide to hire a planner (which you should) interview her, ask lots of questions, ask for referrals and most of all if you don’t click don’t force it. You need to be comfortable with your planner to trust her with your wedding.

1 misconception about the wedding industry:

That anyone can plan a wedding, that Nigerian planners cannot match planners abroad.

1 misconception about you:

That Omega Events is expensive

If you can change anything about the wedding planning industry what would it be?

Have a regulating body to protect clients/planners from people who wake up one morning and call themselves wedding planners with no clue.

Your favourite vendor to work with:

The photographer

Price range for day of Events Co-ordination and Full Wedding Planning:

Depending on size, location, etc 75k and above.

3 other planners you will recommend to other people and why:

Molara Akinosho (Just Weddings) - apart from the love I have for her :), she is very creative.

Jibola Ponnle (Stencil Events) - We haven’t met yet but I know she is very professional and detailed.

Vivian Adeniyi (The Event House) - my very dear friend, very detailed, dedicated and she knows her stuff.


Question of the day



Why is it that people are willing to pay an MC - 400k or a musician 1mil but they feel a wedding planner is not worth much. Why are wedding planners not valued?


Rant of the day!!!!



When you get a business card of say a caterer for example and it reads:

Mrs Abc

Catering, decorations, wedding planning, drink, cocktails, MC, band etc
Why is it that people can not stick to one thing or like things?

51 comments:

Anonymous said...

nice post are there any wedding planners in atlanta?

Anonymous said...

well thanks for the post it really did help some of us brides vent worked with any of the listed planners but definately going to.True talk about one clicking with wedding planners.I actually did click very well with Lara and after talking to her i knew i could trust her with my wedding plans ,spoke to gbemi n shes quite cool .No hard feelings never spoken to funke but judging by her work i can say it does come out professionally.All the best guys n keep up the good work.

Rant : i wonder ooo how will one person be doing all that except of course what they mean is they can recommend good vendors then its fine apart from that i believe that just spells disaster of the highest order "MPO"

AJ said...

Hello ladies, very good information about event planners. I believe it is the same way here in the States, however things are changing slowly but surely.

The truth is wedding planning can be hectic, you need someone who has got their stuff down. However the best planner is the one who has all the best vendors, because trust me that could be a nightmare for a planner, vendors who are just CRAZY ... You know that could make or break your clients event.

Now I have a few pointers that I give my brides as things they should not compromise on regardless of who is planning their wedding.

1. Do not compromise on your gown/makeup/accessories and the total way you want to look on that day- that could ruin your entire mood. You need to feel beautiful because it shows through in the pictures and your entire attitude for the day.

2. Do not compromise on your photographer. They are going to be capturing the very essence of the day, the last thing you want is to get botched pictures after your wedding or getting pictures of random people, food and drinks (who cares about that)

3. Do not compromise on decor - it sets off the total mood for your event and sets the pace for your guests to follow.

Those are my 3 most important things ...

As far as planners in the US ... I have worked with a few but would recommend these 3 for any tpe of event

Bunmi Okeowo - A Gracious Affair
www.agraciousaffair.com

Eileen Ajayi - Distinct Occassions
http://distinctoccasionsinc.com/

Tola Adegboye - Labor of Love Events

As far as Nigerian wedding planners in ATL none that I know of yet ... However if anyone knows any, please share their info ...

And wedding vogue team you may want to think about featuring them also for your fans out here in the Sates that may be planning their wedding

Wedding Vogue said...

Hello Everyone,
I woke up this morning and I had 20 voicemail messages, there I was thinking oh my God ‘brides’ ‘brides’ lollllll
But more seriously I got all your voicemail messages, emails and after talking over this with Molara we both decided to remove the posts. While we appreciate all the praise/positive comments, we will like the negative as well but in form of ‘constructive criticism/feedback’. As always thank you for your comments and support.

Gbemi & Molara

Anonymous said...

Hi, I know a Planner in MD that travels across the US. Her outfit is called "Garden of Eden" I'll come back with her site.

Anonymous said...

website is gardenofedenintl.com

AJ said...

Gbemi & Molara, I applaud you on being able to exercise restraint despite the harshness of the "critics". Again I want to let you guys know that I appreciate this forum that you have set aside for us to discuss one of the most important days of our lives ... Thanks

On that note let us talk about the RANT of the week let me just say some folks are trying to cover all the bases. TRUTH be told though, of all the things they list, they are only truly good at one or two. But why would they list all these? you ask, I attribute it to the "hoarding" mentality. themselves and want people to always USE them, they dont want to share the wealth. But what they do not realize is that they can't do everything. For goodness sake take a cue from real life, you can't be an accountant and also be a stockbroker and a financial advisor and a sales person and so on and so forth. ADVICE for all the Jills of All trades, mistresses of None ... Pick one area to focus on i.e. planning, decor, MC, Catering etc and hone your skills. Become distinguished in that area and associate yourself with other vendors that will help boost your business. E.G if you are a decor specialist, find 2-3 different planners that you work with, know at least 3-4 photographers you recommend your clients to, know a good MC ... Form a network of sorts and offer discounts to your clients based on referrals from your associates ...

U don't have to do everything ... Share the wealth

Arewa said...

thanks for the links.. i will definately be contacting u guys..x x x

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Informative read about wedding planner,Planning a wedding is a major undertaking that can lead to stress and unhappiness for the soon to be married couple.One of the advantages of hiring a wedding planner is that they usually have connections with the local services that are used for a wedding.

kennady said...

We are a full service event planning organizer, consultancy andwedding planner and coordination to manage the most important events of the company (for you). Omega Events to create unique things is what we do best, we believe that a single large or small, deserves the same attention to details.

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